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You can touch my butt, but not the hole. Just anal messing around. Defining our terms seemed important, since these are genres of sex that people get extremely touchy about, so to speak.
Top definition. A young male who is often seen limping the morning after. That bum boy took a big one last night.
Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play to be fair, many bi and gay men are tooand as a result are missing out on a whole world of fun. This is the third in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Seriously though, your anus and rectum are full of nerve endings, just like your penis.
In case you somehow haven't heard, pegging is all the rage right now. People are going totally apeshit over it. And for good reason!
Anal sex is not everyone's cup of tea. The mystery and taboo that surrounds it might make it seem like the big thing everyone wants to try, but the bottom line is that some people like it and some people don't. So how can you tell if you do or you don't without doing, at least once?
At night after work, I had my first drinks and joints on the hostel rooftop. I remember topping a glass with vodka and trying to chug it. On the wall of my hostel was a poster for Ayurvedic Indian massage.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.
Anal sex or anal intercourse is generally the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person's anusor anus and rectumfor sexual pleasure. While anal sex is commonly associated with male homosexualityresearch shows that not all gay males engage in anal sex and that it is not uncommon in heterosexual relationships. Anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice because of the vulnerability of the anus and rectum.
I'm sure this will come as a surprise to approximately no one, but I'll say it anyway so that we can begin this article coming from a place of truth and understanding -- I'm very into butt stuff. All things revolving around the derriere I find utterly fascinating. Just yesterday, while standing behind bae in the shower, I found it literally impossible not to repeatedly smack his butt while he washed the shampoo from his hair.